Addiction to Self-Development

Main subjects

AVAlexander VolchekPersonal development and inner supportAddiction to self-developmentTimeTruthSpiritual traps and risks

Main threads of the conversation

• 00:00The mindset: you must constantly learn and develop
• 05:04Do people develop at all?
• 14:04Why adults “stop” at 24–28 while thinking they are developing
• 14:54What does intellectual development lead to?
• 17:36How do we measure development?
• 22:50Society's “boxes to check”: diplomas, Forbes, and criteria from the past
• 25:08Times have changed
• 28:44Acting truthfully instead of “developing” (the next step)
• 31:36Question: Why do people focus on external things rather than truth?
• 36:47Social slots: wanting others to define “who you are”
• 45:05The path of movement in truth

Claims made here

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• 02:44

  When people say you need to study more, this is what they mean: “I studied more, so I am smarter, I know more, I have more opportunities.”

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• 07:49

  I have many plants in my garden. It would be like the plants arguing about which is better or cooler, which flowers for six months and which for two days.

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• 09:16

  “If my child practices gymnastics independently for three hours every day and another child attends a club three times a week that is called professional, who is doing it professionally?” We live in a world of comparisons.

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• 11:16

  People my age who work in programming—I have many acquaintances and friends who do—consider themselves top-class because they have experience and will get results.

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• 14:12

  Returning to this important question of human development and understanding it.

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• 18:16

  Or someone says, “I am developed because I have read these forty books. That is why I am developed.”

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• 28:51

  But that hope is not grounded in understanding that the most important thing is to look at what is truly happening.

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• 29:23

  There is no idea of “Have I become smarter or better? Am I acting truthfully more correctly or incorrectly?” There is no comparison of right and wrong action here.

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• 38:35

  Or should we look at the person’s system: where they are, why they are in this state, what state it is, what impulses they have and what impulses are acting in them now?

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• 41:06

  Notice that regardless of upbringing or schooling, we see people who received the best education in the world—a royal education, for example—linked to cases of child prostitution.

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