How Alcohol Steals Your Ambitions — original Russian video by Alexander Volchek

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How Alcohol Steals Your Ambitions

Alexander VolchekAnna Volchek

A video about why you need to stop drinking alcohol right now. How do you stop drinking without feeling like the odd one out? How does even a little alcohol affect your money, career, family, and social circle? In episode 79, we explore social pressure on people who don't drink, the hidden cost of “cultured” drinking, and an exercise to check yourself for dependence. This video is for anyone who wants to quit alcohol for good, cut back, or learn to say…

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The main question

How do you stop drinking without feeling like the odd one out?

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  • 01:44

    Interestingly, I recently spoke with an older woman I know, and she said, “I knew right from the start, all my life, that drinking alcohol was bad. That had always been my absolute conviction; I sincerely felt it.”

    Alexander Volchek

  • 01:55

    It would have changed a great deal, because there were times in my life when I became close to certain people only because we drank.

    Alexander Volchekcause

  • 04:16

    I kept tomatoes in that fridge, because it maintained room temperature.

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  • 05:14

    People don't know the most important thing about alcohol's influence, and they don't pay attention to it.

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  • 07:44

    The most important thing a person needs to understand about drinking alcohol is that they don't understand the consequences at all. They don't understand the consequences at all.

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  • 09:52

    There wasn't anyone who explained it to me, but overall, it all clicked. I understood it all.

    Alexander Volchek

  • 10:26

    If you truly want, truly want to change, you need to watch the entire series and watch it again, and again, and again, and again, and again, to start perceiving what this is actually about.

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  • 12:03

    Honestly, if someone says, “I don't know how else to relax,” you simply have to recognize this for yourself.

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  • 14:34

    There's a concept that a person has seven dependencies, and one of them is very strong: food.

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  • 16:27

    You know how some people put up a poster of Che Guevara or wear a Che Guevara T-shirt and say, “He's a great liberator. It was all so wonderful.”

    Alexander Volchek

What to pay attention to

  • Why do people who don't drink often feel “different”?
  • How do drinkers affect the nondrinkers around them?

What to watch next

  • Alcohol: Why Do We Drink? The Consequences of Alcoholism
  • Why Are You Smart but Poor? | Personal Development

Who this is for

  • For readers interested in: Health, rest, and lifestyle, Children, parenting, and family life, Love, help, and rescuing others
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