How and When to Ask for Forgiveness

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ForgivenessCouples and healthy relationshipsChildren, parenting, and family lifeFreedomCHChildrenHUHusband

What is said here

• 00:00How do you ask for forgiveness? How do you ask for forgiveness properly, and where do you need to ask for it? How should you ask for forgiveness at work? How do you ask your boss for forgiveness? How do you ask your colleagues?Forgiveness · Time · Children
• 02:15I'm sorry, but you created a situation in which a person lost themselves and never managed to recover. Are you really sure you can ask forgiveness for that?Forgiveness
• 04:26By asking for forgiveness, you don't simply want to balance something out. You want to give the other person freedom, give the other person hope, give the other person joy.Forgiveness · Freedom

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• 01:23

  We're brought up to want to ask for forgiveness and receive something for it, because we're asking forgiveness for something.

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• 02:39

  Truly asking for forgiveness means being in a state where you expect nothing from the other side.

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• 03:01

  You feel that asking forgiveness is necessary because you've done something wrong.

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• 03:25

  They say, “Why should I ask for forgiveness if the other person doesn't want to ask for it?” That's exactly what expecting an effect from the other side is.

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• 03:59

  It's when you ask another person for forgiveness from your own heart, from an inner impulse to do so.

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• 04:12

  From the feeling that it's necessary right here and now.

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• 04:43

  Help the other person think about something else happening in life.

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• 04:51

  But asking for forgiveness in this case is absolutely not your selfish desire to change the other person.

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• 05:02

  It's something you need to do for the other person simply for its own sake.

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• 05:09

  If only we all knew how to ask for forgiveness calmly, without thinking whether we'd done it right or wrong, without expecting a response from the other person. Simply ask for forgiveness, even if you're doing it with the same person twenty times.

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