What You Create in Another Person Through Your Irritation, Desire, and Attention

Main subjects

AVAlexander VolchekIrritationF/Friend / friendsKarma, free will, and causalityChildren, parenting, and family lifeHealth, rest, and lifestyle

Main threads of the conversation

• 00:00Where reactions to people come from
• 08:02Energy exchange and connections between people
• 10:27Attraction to a person is the same as irritation
• 12:23How to begin seeing more of a person
• 14:40The ability to see more deeply: an example from nature
• 15:30Phantom trauma and the energy of perception
• 17:59How irritation creates trauma and karma: the flows a single instance of irritation sets in motion
• 19:17Awareness of a reaction as the beginning of transformation
• 20:06How energy exchange and influence work between people

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Individual claims identified in the material: who said them, when, and what kind of thought they express. Each timestamp opens that point in the video.

• 02:36

  And what we are talking about is something you need to be prepared for, Tanya.

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• 08:10

  I remember a trip to Lake Baikal. We were on Olkhon Island on a spiritual trip, and the next day the door opened and a new member of the group walked in—a woman who is now quite close to me.

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• 08:54

  Later she went to the teacher we had been with—or the person we had been there with; you know her—and said, “I have developed physical feelings toward Sasha, toward Alexander, of the kind that arise between a man and a woman.”

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• 12:23

  If we are talking about how to look at another person, how to understand what is really happening in an interaction, and what state to live from in order to learn to see more of a person than your reaction to them, you can keep asking that question endlessly…

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• 14:06

  This is a very important idea: to truly understand other people, you need to place their importance in life at least alongside your own.

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• 18:20

  For example, when you disagree with someone's view, or for some reason do not want to hear that person at that moment. You are not always like that.

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• 25:19

  But please do not take this to mean that we know each other or that I am sharing some personal connection.

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• 26:07

  So every time someone rides in a Rolls-Royce or gets out of it, they are in a state of very heavy energy, because they are the object of close attention.

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• 27:01

  As you said earlier—this will probably be in another video, one of the videos we recorded—if you feel irritation toward someone, a certain phantom is created. You need to learn to work on it, to notice it.

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• 30:24

  That is why there are karmic paths, and people need to understand these causes and effects, study them, and take responsibility for them, Tanya.

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