#12
Meeting 12Relationships and love
Another person as a spiritual being
Can be taken on its own1 hr 46 min
Meeting 26
Projections and a person's spiritual being
Mother, child, director—we look at a person through familiar roles. What happens when we look from the perspective of their spiritual being? Alexander returns to perception and coming to know: notice the person themselves, without explaining everything in advance or losing your own participation in what happens.
July 3, 20261 hr 36 minRelationships and love
#26
Do I see the person themselves—or only my projection of who they should be?
- For those who want to look differently at familiar relationships with loved ones
- For those returning to observing a person beyond their social role
What you can explore here
Explore projections that arise in relationships with loved ones
Compare a person's role with the author's view of their spiritual being
Return to perception and coming to know rather than a ready-made model of behavior
In the author's words“As soon as you begin looking from the perspective of the spiritual being, every model of behavior falls away. It disappears altogether.”
What the conversation covers
- Projections in relationships with one's mother and other loved ones
- A person's role and spiritual being
- Living in a state of perception and coming to know
- External influences and a person's own action
This is a recording of a live meeting with participants' questions and examples. The topics describe its contents; they are not an outline for a separate course.
The final meeting returns to coming to know the person themselves. This is not a list of new roles or a technique for managing loved ones' behavior.
Return to your own experience.
- What am I now expecting of the role of “mother,” “child,” or “manager”?
- What remains if I do not insist on this model of behavior?
- Where does the person's own action disappear in my explanation?
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What to keep in mind
A spiritual view of a person does not erase their specific actions, personal boundaries, or questions of safety. In the recording, the author specifically distinguishes external influences from what a person did themselves.
If I notice my projections, will the conflict disappear?
That is not guaranteed. Exploring your own perspective does not automatically change someone else's behavior or remove boundaries or responsibility; it helps you formulate your own question more precisely.
Background: detail of “No. 12,” October 30, 2025 · Alexander Volchek